Manner Monday: The Incivility Virus
CareySue Vega | HR| By
You work hard to keep employees healthy. You provide hand sanitizer at every door and soap in all of the restrooms. You encourage employees to work out and to stay healthy.
The Incivility Virus
But unfortunately there is another virus that is spreading, and if it goes untreated, it too can hurt your bottom line.
A recent University of Florida study found that mistreated people are also more likely to feel as if others are treating them rudely. They then respond with more rudeness, passing on negative emotions like a virus.
The principal author of the study, Trevor Foulk, asserts that rudeness “has an enormously profound detrimental influence on the workplace.” The Journal of Applied Psychology recently published the study.
The study discovered that disrespect also causes detrimental side effects, just like secondhand smoke from cigarettes. Participants were more likely to respond in an uncourteous manner to an email from a hypothetical client after watching a video of an unfriendly workplace encounter than participants who watched a video of a nice interaction.
“That tells us that rudeness will flavor the way you interpret ambiguous cues,” Foulk said.
Workplace Incivility can rear its ugly head in many places; there are three basic types:
- This might happen when someone doesn’t say thank you after you did something nice for them.
- Sending time sensitive information without giving the recipient a heads up. Not responding to emails. Using abrupt or curt verbiage in emails that leave the receiver questioning the tone of delivery. Without tone of voice, there is unfortunately room for interpretation, and we may end up seeing the sender as being rude.
- This is the ‘leave it for someone else to do’ syndrome. Leaving the coffee pot empty, leaving a paper jam in the copier without trying to fix it or report it, throwing trash ‘close’ the receptacle and not picking it up to put it in the trashcan. Victimless incivility does not have an instant impact on others, but it definitely violates norms and expectations for courtesy.
Civility costs nothing but goes a long way in helping to keep employee moral healthy and boost your bottom line. Here are a few tips to help cultivate civility in your office:
Lead by Example.
- Management has to be onboard and they have to model civility at all times. If employees see their boss being disrespectful, it sets an underlying tone that the behavior is acceptable.
- Have a discussion during staff meeting. Have the staff establish the norms and expectations so that everyone is onboard and understands what is expected.
No one gets a hall pass.
- Put your foot down; stop it in its place, especially any recurring offenders. Everyone plays be the same rules, even your favorite ‘rock star’ on the team. If the other team members see that you gave Betty a hall pass because she’s the top salesman – that will only help to perpetuate the incivility virus.
‘Don’t let crazy in the door.’
- I heard that phrase one time from Dave Ramsey and I’ve thought about it many times since. Do your due diligence during the interview process. Take the potential new hire out to eat with their significant other and watch closely how they treat that person. Pay attention to how they interact with the wait staff. It’s much easier to find out before you hire someone if they’re disrespectful than after you’ve brought them ‘in the door’.
Continuing Education is a good thing, and Civility Training will help to keep the incivility virus at bay in your office.